Vintage Mother's Day

A few months ago I took a few snapshots of these photos I consider priceless and have been saving them specifically to post on Mother's Day. 

"We knew"

Oh, how I love my mom. One of my most treasured blog post is this one from Mother's Day 2012. In addition to those thoughts, these photos put me in a very relatable place to her. These pictures of us show her in the stage of life that I am in now. Her third and last baby, who just so happens to also be a (rather cute) little girl (after another girl and a boy before that as well).  

This was also the stage that marked the beginning of us. The only unfortunate thing about our situation is that she had to come before me. That I wasn't there with her for any of the stages that came before this one and that there will come a time where she won't be with me for any of the stages I go through after she leaves. But how I will rejoice now and forever for the time on this earth that we overlap. And for everything she has taught and continues to teach me, and how we can be laughing together one minute and crying the next, and how we totally get each others senses of humor and therefore think each other is super funny...and wise, and how I just have to say "hello" on the phone and she knows something is wrong (only when something is actually wrong though), and how she still (even though I'm 30) has that magical power to make everything okay. Seriously, sometimes it's like things haven't changed a bit since those days in these photos.

Dear Mom, I can't help but to hope one day (I'm sure after this life when you and I are kickin' back enjoying the eternities) I'll get to find out why I was so blessed to have you for my mom. 

I love you--more than I can say. Happy Mother's Day!

Our Marilyn Monroe

It was no suprise to me that one day Hazel woke up from her nap with a strategically placed boogy beauty mark. It's something that just runs in the family...

I'm related to Marilyn Monroe. 

Don't believe me?

Niether did my A.P. U.S. History teacher in high school.

The lecture that day was on the iconic figures of the 1950's. It just so happened that I was sitting on the front row and as soon as I realized the informational article he was reading to us was about yours truly, I got so excited about my claim to fame, I blurted out, "I'm related to her!"

He laughed heartily and told me in front of the entire class that I was wrong. Now, despite what you may think, I really liked this teacher. I found his lectures interesting and his dry humor quite entertaining. And because in my efforts to convince him otherwise, he said, "Fine. If you can tell me what her real name is, I'll give you 400 extra credit points." Assuming, of course, I would never know such a random piece of trivial information like that.

Cool, calm and collected (well, that's how I remember it) I said, "Norma.  Jeane.  Mortensen."

My correct answer was confirmed. And I was able to enjoy a moment of sweet victory that would have been worthy of a narration from A Christmas Story's Jean Shepherd himself.  

Now, there are some who might say Marilyn's moral compass was off a few degrees, but there's not a woman on my mom's side of the family who would allow you to say a bad thing about our girl. We're loyal people by nature and that combined with the sympathy we have for knowing the difficulty it must have taken to become No. 1 in TV Guide's Films Sexiest Woman of All Time leaves us with nothing but a ridiculous amount of pride for this distant relation. 

I mean we're talking the sort of pride that prompted my sister, as a little girl, to attend a church primary activity dressed as Marilyn because they were supposed to go as their favorite ancestor.  (The primary president wasn't amused. My mom was. As are the rest of us to this very day.)

For despite her flaws (and Hollywood's overly tragic portrayl of her)--she was an icon. That's not something merely attained through talent, charm and beauty alone, but more so, I'd say, through her confidence and fearlessness. And I can't help but think there isn't a woman on Earth who wouldn't love thinking they have a little of that floating around in her gene pool. I'm pretty sure it was coursing through my veins that day in my history class, or the day my sister dressed up as her favorite ancestor. Or any other time my mom, aunt, cousins, sister or myself needed an extra boost of courage on or off a stage--it was there then too. 

Even though we are related to her through my mother's paternal side to her estranged father, Martin E. Mortensen, who Wikipedia told me that she denied him as ever having been so--I can't help but wonder what she would think of this distant branch on her family tree... 

I'd like to think she would be proud of us too.